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Home Silver Shades of Grey Who are you? Comfort A new experience The mirror To make a choice |
.: The mirror :.
What happens when you start to play around with how you experience life. Well by the sound of the previous section it might seem that the sharp edges become a little dull. But this is hardly the case. As soon as you start to let go of the desired outcome, and accept that you will receive exactly what is best for you, the world around you will start to tremble. If you thought the wildest ride was behind you, guess again. As I stated before, your life will become more exciting ! You will allow much more dynamic events in your life, simply because you trust the outcome. As explained before, one way of moving from duality into excitement, lies in redefining the experience. To start using this in practical every day life, sometimes requires training. For some people this might go really quickly for others it can take up to months or even years. Because every situation for each person is a little different, it is beyond the scope of this website for me to write down what possible approach you could take in order to redefine an experience you are going through. But there is one thing I learned to be useful, at least for myself ;-) First of all, you have to face that you got caught in drama *laughter*. This is not always as easy as it sounds. In the middle of a hectic situation a person is almost always convinced he or she sees it the right way, and that the other way might exist, but in this case certainly is not applicable. However there are a few common mind-sentences that pop up to signal that you are, or were caught in a drama. Recognise any of these ? *laughter* They are all questions, to be exact, they are reflective questions. You are asking for an answer. You give away your power ! You actually state that you don’t have the answer ! The answer, and the solution are outside of you ... you are convinced they are … aren’t you ? You want something or someone to tell you what the answer is. This feeling of ‘it is out of my control’ is the signal that you got caught in drama. The first thing you can actually do to change the situation to eventually redefine the experience. Is to acknowledge that you are in control. That you are a powerful being that has control over its own life. For this is what you truly are, a part God. A co-creator. In case you want to give this a try, find yourself a mirror. Now close your eyes, and just try to define how you feel in no more then ten words. Then open your eyes, and look into the mirror. Look at your eyes for at least a minute. Look consciously, don’t let your mind wander off. As soon as you feel your mind starts to wander off firmly state out loud: I am. I create. Done ? Then give the following line a good thought: If you are in control … then this off course means, that the experience that you are in, the drama that caught you, is also a creation of yours. Even if it is painful, or sad, you did create it. And you created it for a very good reason too ! Be proud that you dared to create it this way ! Now, pick up that mirror again, Close your eyes, and state out loud: I am, I create. Then open your eyes and state it once more: I am, I create. Again … I am, I create … again … I am … I create … Now if you put down the mirror, and close your eyes again for a second, you may feel your energy has changed. Because in this mirror, you have just recognised yourself. This is who you are. How do you feel now ? The drawing shown below, can help activate and integrate the recognition process. It will not just 'give' you power, it will make you remember how to reclaim what is rightfully yours. 
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